Guys and girls plz! help. been rough relationship lately but talkd to him bout it. l8r found out he was high!?

i had a bf like that. when he was high we would have a very good conversation. but when he wasnt high he would hardly talk. well that is an addiction and it wont go away. you will not get what you want fully in a relationship like that. he's not the guy you think he is. you are talking to his drug and not to him. he also has other women on his mind and that is not good. you need to tell him to het help or you have to go. but most likely you will have to leave becuz most people with an addiction dont think they have a problem. good luck.