Aspergers? social anxiety? Depression?

In general I am a fairly introverted individual. I still participate in cl discussions, i engage in conversations where people are talking to me and asking me questions, and i can generally hold conversations with people with eye contact. I guess i have some odd obsessions/ interests, but i think they're productive interests. I am fascinated with Physics most notably quantum physics, time travel, and theoretical physics. I am also very interested in religious studies. I like very asthetic music with very deep introspective lyrics. I.E. Elliott smith, the smiths, Jeff Buckley, etc. But i don't think there is anything wrong with that. I don't think there is anything abnormal about think about the origin and evoulution of the comsos, or debating religion, or listening to music with substance and meaning. My biggest difficulty would probably be in a sort of "chaotic" social scene. For example like at a college party or bar. For whatever reason i have a very difficult time connecting with women. One would think that if you alcohol in you it would loosen you up. I have heard that people with aspergers can be "hypersensitive" to things. I think i just feel akward when i engage in a conversation with women and out of being sensitive to their wishes and not wanting them to feel akward i don't really pursue them. This is why i don't think i have AS. From everything i read, people with AS don't really know how to read people. I can see if someone is disinterested or uncomfortable talking to me, so i will halt the conversation. When i have conversations with people i make eye contact, i respond swiftly, and i show emotion. Although i would say most of the time i am just acting like i really care. But i don't think what these people are saying is really relevant. I'm not interested in listening to my friends discuss/brag about cheating on their girlfriends, exploiting drunk women, gossiping about people, and saying retarded racist things. To make things easier i just act like im interested. This leads to my current depression and bitterness. I think to myself why are these horrible people with beautiful seemingly nice women. And i'm left alone. I'm severly bitter now. Honestly out of self defense from feeling sad and alone i am almost all together disengaging myself from trying to find a companion. I alike myself alot to Dexter Morgan from the show Dexter and his "confusion" on women. Not saying i am a serial killer lol. Sorry for the lousy grammar and poor sentence structure, but i just wanted to vent